There is something I really want everyone to know and the best way for this is posting it here on my blog. I found a great text on THIS tumblr but I've shortened it a little bit and wrote own parts (especially in the begining). Take your time and read my post. Even if you think you don't need to!
I really like to cheer people up and if you have any problems you can ALWAYS write me an e-mail or anything and I'll help you. If you think there is nobody there for you - I'll be there!
I think we should all realize that we are a wonderful piece of art. You are beautiful just the way you are! No matter what skincolour, disability, weight, height, etc. You were born to be amazing and to help this world to be a peaceful place. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
You are not ugly. Other peoples opinions on how you look or the way you dress, etc should have no affect on you. You are unique and beautiful in your own way. Don't let the opinions of those who don’t matter to you personally, make you feel horrible about yourself.
Don't self harm, you are a lovely person. You have a heart, you care about other people. You know, we all push people away, especially when we need them the most. I've been through the same thing and I know that it will make you feel better for a while. But question yourself : What will self harming solve? Nothing. It will only cause you more pain. You'll feel guilty and regret it. Whatever you want to do to yourself, don’t do it. You’re only hurting yourself more.
You will find happiness, stop self harming, do things that you enjoy
doing. Do something else instead of self harm, listen to your music
really loud, sing. Write in a diary. You are able to stop. Believe in
yourself and never doubt the beauty that you hold. Hold on, you can do
this. You have held on for so long, don’t give up now, it isn’t worth
it. And it will never be worth it.
Committing suicide will not solve anything. You may think it will, you might think that it is going to solve all the problems that you ever had. But it won’t. You’re hurting all these people around you, all these people that actually care about you. You deserve to be happy and I know that I don’t know you personally, I get that and I know that I may not know exactly what you are going through but what I do know is that you deserve to be alive. And stay alive. There are so many people out there who would kill to look like you, who would kill to be you. Who would do anything to be in your shoes just for a second. And no I am not going to compare your life to someone who lives in Africa. These people that I am talking about you, live near you. They have seen how beautiful or handsome you really look and they would do anything to look like you. To have what you have. Imagine if one morning, you woke up and one of your friends had passed away, and they wrote you a note, saying all of these things. Imagine how crushed you would feel, to lose someone who was so close to you. Someone you truly cared about even though you didn’t really show it. To all these people who never truly show that they care about someone, you better start showing people because you can actually save lives. It means a lot you know, to know that someone will actually always be there for you. To know that someone out there in this world can genuinely care about you.
Don’t listen to those people who try to bring you down: Because they don’t matter, and they never will. Not if they are trying to bring you down. It just shows how pathetic that they really are. Who are these people who don’t even matter, who are they to bring you down? Who are they to make you feel bad about yourself? They don’t even matter to you in your life. So why should their opinion on you, matter in any way? You just need to see that it doesn’t matter and don’t ever let the past break you, never let what you went through turn you into a weaker person, because you’re strong. You really are.